When dancing, if two people try to lead, nothing feels right. The movement doesn't flow with the music, and everything is quite uncomfortable and jerky. When one person realizes and lets the other lead, both bodies begin to flow with the music. One gives gentle cues, perhaps with a nudge to the back or by pressing lightly in one direction or another. It's as if two become one body, moving beautifully.
Dancing takes surrender, willingness, and attentiveness from one person and gentle guidance and skill from the other.
GUIDANCE -- "G," (God) followed by "U" -- "I" -- makes for a wonderful DANCE
God, you, and I dance.
God make me willing to let you lead in this dance of life!